9) Be Ready to Be Flexible.
Talk about flexibility! Things will be different on campus, and things may also change. Prepare your students for the possibility of needing to stay home from school or the need to pivot to quarantine and remote learning.
10) Prepare for Feelings.
As we look ahead to next week, we know that our children have a variety of emotions about returning to in-person learning. Some kids are so excited to be back that you will have to remind them not to hug their friends and teachers. Others are anxious about separating from those who have been their emotional rock for 6 months, or even scared of the COVID-19 virus itself. Most probably have multiple feelings, a state which reveals what truly makes us human. As parents and families, we are in the same boat, happy that kids will get an opportunity to come to school, but also nervous. Many of us question our decisions daily if not hourly.
What is most important is to acknowledge to yourself and your children that all of these are normal reactions to an abnormal time. As Lynne Lyons often says, the goal is not to try to eliminate or deny emotions or to run to fix things, but rather to recognize the emotions when they show up, acknowledge them and help our coping mechanisms kick in. Listen to emotions and accept them, even the ones that trouble them. Next, work with kids to find the mind-body strategies that work for them so that they can get their nervous system working for them instead of against them. Each person is different, but common techniques include belly breathing, meditation, progressive muscle relaxation, and physical activity. When everyone is in a more regulated state, the thinking brain comes back on-line, and you can talk through any concerns together.